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Sunday, 12 January 2014

Proverbs chapter 7 - the Seductive Prostitute

Proverbs chapter 7.

Summary:  We are warned against going near to the house of sin, near the adulterous woman, near the prostitute. The story of the seductive prostitute tells about how she will entice and seduce the foolish young man. She will seduce him, promising him a rewarding and enjoyable time. But submitting to the seduction of the prostitute may eventually lead to spiritual death, self destruction, and the heart turning away from God.

Warning against the Adulterous Woman  (NIV).
The False Attractions of Adultery  (RSV). 



1 My son, keep my words
and treasure up my commandments with you;
2 keep my commandments and live,
    keep my teachings as the apple of your eye;
3 bind them on your fingers,
    write them on the tablet of your heart.
4 Say to wisdom, “You are my sister,”
    and call insight your intimate friend;
5 to preserve you from the loose woman,
    from the adventuress with her smooth words.  (RSV)

4 Say to wisdom, “You are my sister,”
    and to insight, “You are my relative.”
5 They will keep you from the adulterous woman,
    from the wayward woman with her seductive words.  (NIV)

Say to wisdom, “You are my sister,”
And call understanding your nearest kin,
That they may keep you from the immoral woman,
From the seductress who flatters with her words.  (NKJV)

We are to keep the words of God, commands and teachings within us. Let the commands and teaching be at tips of our fingers. Let the commands and teachings be forever written in our hearts. God's commands are good for our daily living. We must treasure and preserve God's teachings. Wisdom is related to commands and teachings.

Wisdom and Understanding/Insight should be our guiding principles; this will help us keep away from the loose, adulterous, immoral woman, the seductress with flattering speech. We must avoid the sin of immorality and infidelity.

The Crafty Harlot  (NKJV).



6 For at the window of my house
I looked through my lattice,
7 And saw among the simple,
I perceived among the youths,
A young man devoid of understanding,
8 Passing along the street near her corner;
And he took the path to her house
9 In the twilight, in the evening,
In the black and dark night.  (NKJV)

This is a story of a young, unwise man who has no understanding. He often pass by the brothel, at any time of day and night.

Application:  Do not go to the house of sin. Do not even go near it. Lest we be tempted. We should avoid the company of adulterous friends, friends who love to visit prostitutes. Lest we be influenced by them.

10 10 And lo, a woman meets him,
    dressed as a harlot, wily of heart.[a]
11 11 She is loud and wayward,
    her feet do not stay at home;
12 12 now in the street, now in the market,
    and at every corner she lies in wait.  (RSV)

10 10 Then out came a woman to meet him,
    dressed like a prostitute and with crafty intent.
11 11 (She is unruly and defiant,
    her feet never stay at home;
12 12 now in the street, now in the squares,
    at every corner she lurks.)  (NIV)

10 10 And there a woman met him,
With the attire of a harlot, and a crafty heart.
11 11 She was loud and rebellious,
Her feet would not stay at home.
12 12 At times she was outside, at times in the open square,
Lurking at every corner.  (NKJV)

This story has literary interpretation, i.e. a prostitute, and figurative interpretation, i.e. immorality, sins, wickedness, fleshly lust, temptation, carnal desires.

A prostitute meets the foolish, young man.
Characteristics of the prostitute:
1)  Appearance and clothing of seduction.
2)  Crafty heart and crafty intent, to seduce.
3)  Loud, talkative and chatty.
4)  Wayward, unruly, rebellious.
5)  She is outside there, at anywhere, at every where.

This concept of "anywhere and everywhere" makes me think that the "harlot" in this passage should not be limited to the prostitute, sex worker.  This "harlot" could also fleshly lust and carnal desires, such as illicit sex, fornication, pornography, gambling, alcoholic drinking, drug abuse, greed for money and wealth, overeating.

13 She took hold of him and kissed him
    and with a brazen face she said:
14 “Today I fulfilled my vows,
    and I have food from my fellowship offering at home.
15 So I came out to meet you;
    I looked for you and have found you!
16 I have covered my bed
    with colored linens from Egypt.
17 I have perfumed my bed
    with myrrh, aloes and cinnamon.  (NIV)

The prostitute would approach the foolish, young man with no sense/understanding, kissed him to entice him. With smooth and flattering words, she will entice him.  She openly invites him to have sex. In today's reality, the flattering words and enticement could come in the forms of revealing clothes, looking sexy flaunting her breasts and moving her hips provocatively, dancing and winking of her eyes, a sexy smile.

For the professionals and businessmen, the enticement of "Greed for more money and massive wealth" is even more tempting than the sexy and beautiful prostitute. Greed for money and wealth has hindered many believers from spending time with God, following the commands and teachings of God. In the pursuit of Greed for more money and greater wealth, many believers have bent the rule, entertained customer in places of sin (brothels, KTV with girls and sex, golf clubs offering corrupt, playing 18+1 holes, excessive drinking and clubbing).  To satisfy the Greed, some believers would go for a round of golf on Sunday morning with their clients, instead of going to church for Sunday service.

18 18 Come, let’s drink deeply of love till morning;
    let’s enjoy ourselves with love!
19 19 My husband is not at home;
    he has gone on a long journey.
20 20 He took his purse filled with money
    and will not be home till full moon.”  (NIV)

The prostitute tempts the foolish young man with sex, offering to have sex all night long. Fleshly lust are very real and tempting. Believers are also human, having fleshly lust, carnal desires, just like everyone else in the world.  Sex is one of the greatest enjoyment, all throughout the centuries, all over the world. Even for Adam, sex with Eve was the best enjoyment for him, much better than playing with the animal, birds, fishes, etc.

The prostitute gave good justification, that she was alone and lonely, that her husband was outstation for a long period of time. Beware of the seductress! Beware of temptations!

Be watchful of other forms of sins, immorality, fleshly lust.  There are sometimes good justifications, For instance, need to entertain the clients, hence need to go to the girly bars.  Need more money for children's education, hence need to give bribes in order to secure more orders, so more money.

21 21 With persuasive words she led him astray;
    she seduced him with her smooth talk.
22 22 All at once he followed her
    like an ox going to the slaughter,
like a deer[a] stepping into a noose[b]
23     23 till an arrow pierces his liver,
like a bird darting into a snare,
    little knowing it will cost him his life.  (NIV)

The prostitute seduced with persuasive/seductive words, and smooth talk. The tongue is a very powerful weapon. The tongue could be very convincing and persuasive.

With the sweet, persuasive words of the prostitute, and charmed by her beauty and sexy body, the foolish young man takes up the offer of the prostitute.  Submitting to "the seduction of the prostitute" will lead to death and destruction for this foolish young man.

In reality, so many believers are similarly enticed by so many of this worldly pleasures, fleshly lusts, carnal desires, and lusts of the eyes. Many committed Christians may say, "I don't visit prostitutes", yet they may be involved in other sins, such as greed, laziness, pride, false witness, slandering.

24 24 Now then, my sons, listen to me;
    pay attention to what I say.
25 25 Do not let your heart turn to her ways
    or stray into her paths.
26 26 Many are the victims she has brought down;
    her slain are a mighty throng.
27 27 Her house is a highway to the grave,
    leading down to the chambers of death.  (NIV)


Do not let our heart turn to the ways of the adulterous woman, to the ways of the prostitute. Similarly, our hearts should not overly focus on worldly pleasures, fleshly lusts, carnal desires, and lusts of the eyes.

Sins of immorality, illicit sex, fornication, adultery will lead to spiritual death and self destruction. In conjunction with those, if believers are to much involved in satisfying carnal desires and fleshly lusts, and pleasures of this world, these may turn away their hearts away from God.  Turning away from God is living with no wisdom.


Sunday, Jan 12, 2014.
Michael Yeap.

NIV:  http://www.biblegateway.com/passage/?search=Proverbs%207&version=NIV

RSV:  http://www.biblegateway.com/passage/?search=Proverbs%207&version=RSV

NKJV:  http://www.biblegateway.com/passage/?search=Proverbs%207&version=NKJV

Commentaries:
1)  http://www.biblegateway.com/resources/matthew-henry/Prov.7.1-Prov.7.5
2)  http://www.biblegateway.com/resources/matthew-henry/Prov.7.6-Prov.7.23
3)  http://www.biblegateway.com/resources/matthew-henry/Prov.7.24-Prov.7.27

Friday, 10 January 2014

Proverbs chapter 5 (part 2) - Rejoice in the Wife of your youth

Proverbs chapter 5.

Summary:  The pleasure of sex is to be enjoyed by husband and wife within lawful marriage. Love, appreciate, and be fond of your own wife. Do not have adultery with somebody else's wife.  "Rejoice in the wife of your youth." 

15 15 Drink water from your own cistern,
    running water from your own well.
16 16 Should your springs overflow in the streets,
    your streams of water in the public squares?
17 17 Let them be yours alone,
    never to be shared with strangers.
18 18 May your fountain be blessed,
    and may you rejoice in the wife of your youth.
19 19 A loving doe, a graceful deer
    may her breasts satisfy you always,
    may you ever be intoxicated with her love.
20 20 Why, my son, be intoxicated with another man’s wife?
    Why embrace the bosom of a wayward woman?  (NIV)

18 18 Let your fountain be blessed,
    and rejoice in the wife of your youth,
19     a lovely hind, a graceful doe.
19 Let her affection fill you at all times with delight,
    be infatuated always with her love.
20 20 Why should you be infatuated, my son, with a loose woman
    and embrace the bosom of an adventuress?  (RSV)

Pleasures of sex is a reality. Enjoy sex with your own wife. Do not have sex with random sex partners, multiple sex partners.

For those not married, be lawfully married. Sex should be enjoyed by husband and wife.

Be appreciative with your real wife. Delight in her. Always love her, caring, and be emotionally infatuated with her.  Do not get involved in adultery with somebody's wife. Do not get involved with a loose, immoral woman.

21 21 For a man’s ways are before the eyes of the Lord,
    and he watches[e] all his paths.
22 22 The iniquities of the wicked ensnare him,
    and he is caught in the toils of his sin.
23 23 He dies for lack of discipline,
    and because of his great folly he is lost.  (RSV)


God sees what we do. God watches our ways and our paths.

For those who are infidel, his sins will ensnare, cause himself various problems and troubles. There will be bad consequences of infidelity, like those earlier mentioned in earlier part of chapter 5. Wasting of time, energy, and money. Losing honor and dignity. Bringing about shame and disgrace.

For lack of self-control and discipline, the infidel person will end up in his own self destruction.  Inability to control sexual desires outside marriage and extra-marital sex are acts of folly.


Friday, Jan 10, 2014.
Michael Yeap.

NIV:  http://www.biblegateway.com/passage/?search=proverbs%205&version=NIV

RSV:  http://www.biblegateway.com/passage/?search=proverbs%205&version=RSV

NKJV:  http://www.biblegateway.com/passage/?search=proverbs%205&version=NKJV

Commentaries:  http://www.biblegateway.com/resources/matthew-henry/Prov.5.15-Prov.5.23

Thursday, 9 January 2014

Proverbs chapter 5 (part 1) - Warning against Infidelity

Proverbs chapter 5.

Summary:  We are reminded again and again about abiding to Wisdom and Understanding. We are warned against immoral, loose, adulterous woman. Wise men must avoid immorality, fornication, adultery and fleshly lust. There are many dangers to sins of immorality. If one does not shun immorality, he will eventually regret.

Warning against Impurity and Infidelity  (RSV).
Warning against Adultery  (NIV).
The Peril of Adultery  (NKJV).



1 My son, be attentive to my wisdom,
incline your ear to my understanding;
2 that you may keep discretion,
    and your lips may guard knowledge.
3 For the lips of a loose woman drip honey,
    and her speech[a] is smoother than oil;

4 but in the end she is bitter as wormwood,
    sharp as a two-edged sword.
5 Her feet go down to death;
    her steps follow the path to[b] Sheol;
6 she does not take heed to[c] the path of life;
    her ways wander, and she does not know it.  (RSV)

We are again instructed to be guided by Wisdom and Understanding. With multiple times of such instruction, we know for certain that Wisdom and Understanding are very important in many aspects of our lives.

3 For the lips of the adulterous woman drip honey,
    and her speech is smoother than oil;
4 but in the end she is bitter as gall,
    sharp as a double-edged sword.
5 Her feet go down to death;
    her steps lead straight to the grave.
6 She gives no thought to the way of life;
    her paths wander aimlessly, but she does not know it.  (NIV)


3 For the lips of an immoral woman drip honey,
And her mouth issmoother than oil;
4 But in the end she is bitter as wormwood,
Sharp as a two-edged sword.
5 Her feet go down to death,
Her steps lay hold of hell.[a]
Lest you ponder her path of life—
6 Her ways are unstable;
You do not know them.  (NKJV)


There can literary interpretation as well as figurative interpretation.
We are warned against the loose, adulterous, immoral woman.  Probably, a hooker or an adulteress or a seductive woman.  We are told to be careful with the seductive words and her sinful ways.

We are warned against a life of fornication, adultery, and fleshly lust.  If we apply this figuratively, we are also warned against idolatry, false doctrine, and other evils.

Fleshly lust could be very tempting, much like the sweet honey. Smooth seductive speech can also ensnare many men. Fleshly lust may be satisfying to the carnal body, but will have bitter end results, and wounds and injures the self and others like a sword.

7 Now then, my sons, listento me;
    do not turn aside from what I say.
8 Keep to a path far from her,
    do not go near the door of her house,
9 99 lest you lose your honor to others
    and your dignity[a] to one who is cruel,
10 10 lest strangers feast on your wealth
    and your toil enrich the house of another.
11 11 At the end of your life you will groan,
    when your flesh and body are spent.
12 12 You will say, “How I hated discipline!
    How my heart spurned correction!
13 13 I would not obey my teachers
    or turn my ear to my instructors.
14 14 And I was soon in serious trouble
    in the assembly of God’s people.”  (NIV)


We are again reminded to listen to words of wisdom, and not turning away from wisdom.
We are told the dangers of turning away from wisdom, messing around with the "loose/adulterous/immoral woman" and entertaining our fleshly lust. We told not to go near the places of immorality.  Stay far away from immorality and fleshly lust.

Dangers of fleshly lust and immorality are:
1)  Losing honor and dignity. May bring shame and disgrace.
2)  Wasting our money because spending money on women and lust.
3)  Wasting our energy and time doing something unbeneficial.
4)  Wasting the precious years. May wear out the body faster due to excessive sex.

If one does not abide by wisdom and avoid immorality and fleshly lust, he will eventually regret as he gets older. He will end up in trouble, in difficulties, in poor health, wasted his hard-earned money, etc. He will regret for being disobedient to the wise teachings.

(( To be continued the next day. ))

Thursday, Jan 9, 2014.
Michael Yeap.

NIV:  http://www.biblegateway.com/passage/?search=proverbs%205&version=NIV 

RSV:  http://www.biblegateway.com/passage/?search=proverbs%205&version=RSV 

NKJV:  http://www.biblegateway.com/passage/?search=proverbs%205&version=NKJV 

Commentaries:
1)  http://www.biblegateway.com/resources/matthew-henry/Prov.5.1-Prov.5.14 
2)  


Saturday, 4 January 2014

Proverbs chapter 2 - The moral benefits of Wisdom

Proverbs chapter 2.

Summary:  How to gain Wisdom? Various Benefits of Wisdom. Deliverance from Wicked Men. Deliverance from Adulterous Woman. Walk in way of Goodness, in path of the Righteous.

The Moral Benefits of Wisdom.

1 My son, if you accept my words
    and store up my commands within you,
2 turning your ear to wisdom
    and applying your heart to understanding
3 indeed, if you call out for insight
    and cry aloud for understanding,
4 and if you look for it as for silver
    and search for it as for hidden treasure,
5 55 then you will understand the fear of the Lord
    and find the knowledge of God.  (NIV)

1 My son, if you receive my words
and treasure up my commandments with you,

2 making your ear attentive to wisdom
    and inclining your heart to understanding;

3 yes, if you cry out for insight
    and raise your voice for understanding,

4 if you seek it like silver
    and search for it as for hidden treasures;
5 then you will understand the fear of the Lord    and find the knowledge of God.  (RSV)


How to acquire Wisdom?
1) Accept the words of wisdom in out heart and mind.
2) Store/treasure up the commands of wisdom.
3) Listen attentively to wisdom.
4) Emotionally involved in the understanding of wisdom.

To what extent shall we acquire wisdom?
1) Keenly, seriously and zealously desire for wisdom. Hunger for wisdom.
2) Search for wisdom as it is money and wealth (silver and treasure), something precious and important.

What is the end result of wisdom?
1) Primarily, the fear of the Lord.
2) Secondarily, the knowledge of God.
In conclusion, loving and honouring God is the main Wisdom.


6 For the Lord gives wisdom;
    from his mouth come knowledge and understanding.
7 He holds success in store for the upright,
    he is a shield to those whose walk is blameless,
8 for he guards the course of the just
    and protects the way of his faithful ones.  (NIV)

6 For the Lord gives wisdom;
    from his mouth come knowledge and understanding;
7 he stores up sound wisdom for the upright;
    he is a shield to those who walk in integrity,
8 guarding the paths of justice
    and preserving the way of his saints.  (RSV)

Why is Wisdom related to "fear of the Lord"?
Primarily,
Because the Lord gives wisdom,
and God's words are source of knowledge and understanding.

Secondarily,
God helps the upright to have Success and sound wisdom.
God protects those who walk in integrity and blamelessly.
God guards the path of those who are just.
God protects the way of his faithful believers.

9 Then you will understand what is right and just
    and fair—every good path.
10 10 For wisdom will enter your heart,
    and knowledge will be pleasant to your soul.
11 11 Discretion will protect you,
    and understanding will guard you.  (NIV)


9 Then you will understand righteousness and justice
    and equity, every good path;
10 10 for wisdom will come into your heart,
    and knowledge will be pleasant to your soul;
11 11 discretion will watch over you;
    understanding will guard you;  (RSV)


What are the benefits of Wisdom and fearing the Lord?
1) Understand what is right/righteous, just and fair.
2) Understand every good path.
3) Wisdom is in our heart. Our feelings are in line with wisdom.
4) Knowledge fills our soul and mind.
5) Our discretion and understanding will protect and guard us.
 


12
Wisdom will save you from the ways of wicked men,

    from men whose words are perverse,

13 13 who have left the straight paths
    to walk in dark ways,
14 14 who delight in doing wrong
    and rejoice in the perverseness of evil,
15 15 whose paths are crooked
    and who are devious in their ways.  (NIV)


12 12 delivering you from the way of evil,
    from men of perverted speech,
13 13 who forsake the paths of uprightness
    to walk in the ways of darkness,
14 14 who rejoice in doing evil
    and delight in the perverseness of evil;
15 15 men whose paths are crooked,
    and who are devious in their ways.  (RSV)


12 12 To deliver you from the way of evil,
From the man who speaks perverse things,
13 13 From those who leave the paths of uprightness
To walk in the ways of darkness;
14 14 Who rejoice in doing evil,
And delight in the perversity of the wicked;
15 15 Whose ways are crooked,
And who are devious in their paths;  (NKJV)


What is another benefit of Wisdom and fearing the Lord?
Wisdom will deliver us from the way of the evil / wicked men.

Who are the evil/wicked men?
1) Those who speak perversely.
2) Those who forsake/abandon the way of uprightness/righteousness. Those who deviate from the straight/correct path.
3) Those who walk in ways of darkness.
4) Those who delight in doing evil. Those who enjoy wrongdoings. Those who delight in pervousness of evil.
5) Those who are crooked in their ways.
6) Those who are devious in their way of life.


1616 Wisdom will save you also from the adulterous woman,
    from the wayward woman with her seductive words,

17 17 who has left the partner of her youth
    and ignored the covenant she made before God.
18 18 Surely her house leads down to death
    and her paths to the spirits of the dead.
19 19 None who go to her return
    or attain the paths of life.  (NIV)


16 16 You will be saved from the loose woman,
    from the adventuress with her smooth words,
17 17 who forsakes the companion of her youth
    and forgets the covenant of her God;  (RSV)

16 16 To deliver you from the immoral woman,
From the seductress who flatters with her words,
17 17 Who forsakes the companion of her youth,
And forgets the covenant of her God.  (NKJV)


What is another benefit of Wisdom and fearing the Lord?
Wisdom will save us from the adulterous, loose. immoral woman.

What are the characteristics of the Adulterous, Loose, Immoral woman?
1) Seductive words. Seductive and wayward.
2) Flattering speech.
3) Divorced or separated from her husband.
4) Forget the covenant of God.
5) Ignored the marriage vows/covenant made before God.

What is the result of fooling around with the Adulterous/Loose/Immoral woman?
1) Leading to spiritual death.
2) Not attaining the path of spiritual life.


20 20 Thus you will walk in the ways of the good
    and keep to the paths of the righteous.

21 21 For the upright will live in the land,
    and the blameless will remain in it;
22 22 but the wicked will be cut off from the land,
    and the unfaithful will be torn from it.  (NIV)


20 20 So you will walk in the way of good men
    and keep to the paths of the righteous.

21 21 For the upright will inhabit the land,
    and men of integrity will remain in it;
22 22 but the wicked will be cut off from the land,
    and the treacherous will be rooted out of it.  (RSV)


20 20 So you may walk in the way of goodness,
And keep to the paths of righteousness.

21 21 For the upright will dwell in the land,
And the blameless will remain in it;
22 22 But the wicked will be cut off from the earth,
And the unfaithful will be uprooted from it.  (NKJV)

In conclusion, what is the greatest benefit of Wisdom and fearing the Lord?
Wisdom will cause us to walk in the GOOD way, in the path of the RIGHTEOUS.

What is the result of that (walking in GOOD way, in path of the Righteous)?
We will live and remain in God's promised land. We will enjoy the blessings God has promised. We will blessed with countless blessings. We will be blessed with abundance, fruitfulness, success. We will be blessed wherever we are, wherever we go. We will be blessed in everything we do, everything business we venture into, every job we undertake.

Saturday, Jan 4, 2014.
Michael Yeap.

NIV:  
http://www.biblegateway.com/passage/?search=proverbs%202&version=NIV 

RSV:  
http://www.biblegateway.com/passage/?search=proverbs%202&version=RSV

KJV:  
http://www.biblegateway.com/passage/?search=proverbs%202&version=NKJV 

Commentaries:
1)  
http://www.biblegateway.com/resources/matthew-henry/Prov.2.1-Prov.2.9
2)  
http://www.biblegateway.com/resources/matthew-henry/Prov.2.10-Prov.2.22