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Thursday, 26 December 2013

Esther chapter 2 - Esther made Queen

Esther Chapter 2.

Esther Made Queen.


Later when King Xerxes’ fury had subsided, he remembered Vashti and what she had done and what he had decreed about her.

When someone is very angry, he may often react harshly and hastily, and later regrets the reaction. King X, erxes was furious and offended when his Queen refused to come out from inside the palace to the garden when there was a feast for the princes, generals, nobles and officials. King felt "lose face" and took upon the advice of this Advisor to mete out punishment on the Queen. When his fury had subsided, he probably missed his Queen and somewhat regretted over the harsh punishment.

Lesson learnt, when we are angry, we should NOT REACT so hastily. Keep calm. Decide on the Action when the anger has subsided. When we decide the Action or Reaction when we are hot in anger, the decision may be unwise, something that we may regret later, we may end up with Over-Reaction.

Then the king’s personal attendants proposed, “Let a search be made for beautiful young virgins for the king. Let the king appoint commissioners in every province of his realm to bring all these beautiful young women into the harem at the citadel of Susa. Let them be placed under the care of Hegai, the king’s eunuch, who is in charge of the women; and let beauty treatments be given to them. Then let the young woman who pleases the king be queen instead of Vashti.” This advice appealed to the king, and he followed it.

Beautiful young girls of various nationalities and ethnics were sourced from all the provinces within the empire.
Sounds somewhat similar to King Solomon.  Solomon loved many foreign women, and these foreign women somewhat caused him to draw him further away from God, and somewhat "followed" other gods.
Marrying women of various nationalities from the various provinces was also a strategy to  keep the unity and harmony within the empire. Marriage is often an important strategy for political alliances.
What is special in this case is that the sourcing is for young beautiful virgins, not focusing on the family background of the girl. Marriage for beneficial political alliances is focused on the girl's family first.

Now there was in the citadel of Susa a Jew of the tribe of Benjamin, named Mordecai son of Jair, the son of Shimei, the son of Kish, who had been carried into exile from Jerusalem by Nebuchadnezzar king of Babylon, among those taken captive with Jehoiachin[a] king of Judah. Mordecai had a cousin named Hadassah, whom he had brought up because she had neither father nor mother. This young woman, who was also known as Esther, had a lovely figure and was beautiful. Mordecai had taken her as his own daughter when her father and mother died.

Esther's original name was Hadassah.
Esther was an orphan, a captive exiled into Babylon. She probably had a low social standing, yet she rose to be the Queen.
Beauty can be an instrument to God. Because she was beautiful and obedient, she was an instrument used by God to deliver the captive Jews from their enemies.

The Book of Esther reminded me an old friend during my university days. Her name is Esther Koh. When she became a Christian, she adopted the name of Esther.  Probably, because Esther is a very beautiful woman in the Bible.

When the king’s order and edict had been proclaimed, many young women were brought to the citadel of Susa and put under the care of Hegai. Esther also was taken to the king’s palace and entrusted to Hegai, who had charge of the harem. She pleased him and won his favor. Immediately he provided her with her beauty treatments and special food. He assigned to her seven female attendants selected from the king’s palace and moved her and her attendants into the best place in the harem.

As an instrument used by God, Esther found favour and please the the Officer in charge. When we make ourselves ready as instruments for God, He will make a way for us. He will make open doors. He will make all things possible. He will make us find favour with the Decision Maker.

As Ether pleased the Officer-in-charge, he expedited everything for her. He immediately started her with beauty treatments and fine food. He assigned the best living quarter for her. He gave Esther well-experienced maids/assistants. He gave us the best, in short.

10 Esther had not revealed her nationality and family background, because Mordecai had forbidden her to do so.

Esther had obeyed his guardian-cum-cousin, and followed his instruction. Obedience to wise instruction is important for success.
At times, not telling all is the wise thing to do. Not revealing all is not the same as lying. We have to be realistic in telling the truth. It may not be wise to always tell the total and absolute truth.
Should we tell a white lie if it is beneficial for the specific circumstance?

Conventional wisdom will tell us when to tell a small, white lie. Example: boy invites girl for a date. She doesn't want to go, so she tells him a white lie....e.g. I need to grandma's place, I have a saloon appointment.
In real life, in this real world, we need to be realistic.

In Esther's case, she purposely did not talk about her nationality (Jew) and family background (orphan, brought by cousin Mordecai). She did not lie. She just did not want to talk about the entire truth.

11 Every day he walked back and forth near the courtyard of the harem to find out how Esther was and what was happening to her.

Mordecai cared about Esther. Not sure whether it was parental love, or some other types of love.
Mordecai probably wanted to catch a sight of Esther. He probably missed her. He cared.
Mordecai was monitoring and following up on Esther's progress and status.

12 Before a young woman’s turn came to go in to King Xerxes, she had to complete twelve months of beauty treatments prescribed for the women, six months with oil of myrrh and six with perfumes and cosmetics. 13 And this is how she would go to the king: Anything she wanted was given her to take with her from the harem to the king’s palace. 14 In the evening she would go there and in the morning return to another part of the harem to the care of Shaashgaz, the king’s eunuch who was in charge of the concubines. She would not return to the king unless he was pleased with her and summoned her by name.

The practice seems to be somewhat similar to China's Ching dynasty...what we wee in TV programs and movies.
The girl will be trained and beauty-treated, and wait to be summon to the King's bed. After she sleeps with the King, she is up one rank becoming the Concubine.

Sleeping with the King is a privilege well-sought after. When it is the girl's turn to sleep with the King, she gets to choose whatever she wants to bring along (jewellery, etc.).
She wouldn't have a second chance to sleep with the King unless the King is pleased with her and calls for her.

Imagine the extent of preparedness and eagerness of sleeping with the King....for each of these beautiful young virgins...prepared to be Concubines of the King.

15 When the turn came for Esther (the young woman Mordecai had adopted, the daughter of his uncle Abihail) to go to the king, she asked for nothing other than what Hegai, the king’s eunuch who was in charge of the harem, suggested. And Esther won the favor of everyone who saw her.

Esther followed the advice of the Expert. Hegai knew what the King liked. As Esther found favour with Hegai, he gave her his best advice and suggestions.
Esther, being an obedient instrument of God, found favour of everyone who saw her. God can bless us if we are willing instruments of God. God can open doors even when the doors are normally closed and locked. God can make a way even when there seems to be no way.

17 Now the king was attracted to Esther more than to any of the other women, and she won his favor and approval more than any of the other virgins. So he set a royal crown on her head and made her queen instead of Vashti. 18 And the king gave a great banquet, Esther’s banquet, for all his nobles and officials. He proclaimed a holiday throughout the provinces and distributed gifts with royal liberality.

FALL IN LOVE AT FIRST SIGHT is a possibility. In the Bible, in the book of Esther, King Xerxes fell in love with Esther.

King Xerxes was so attracted and in love with Esther, that he promoted her from Concubine to Queen. For four years, the King was without a Queen. He was probably sleeping with a different girl every night. None of the girls pleased him well enough for him to fall in love with her.
Yet, the King fell in love with Esther. Was it her obedience? Was it her good looks? Was it her excellent service? We do not know. What we know is the end result that the King is so attracted with Esther, that he appointed her the Queen.

King Xerxes was very happy with this new Queen that he had a large-scale Banquet for this Queen.  This high level Banquet had the attendance of high level people...princes, generals, nobles, officials.
He even made this a public holiday in conjunction with this glorious event. This shows how much he treasures this new Queen of his.

Mordecai Uncovers a Conspiracy.

20 But Esther had kept secret her family background and nationality just as Mordecai had told her to do, for she continued to follow Mordecai’s instructions as she had done when he was bringing her up.

Even after Esther had become Queen, she did not tell about her nationality and family background. She had continued to obey Mordecai's instruction. She has the virtue of obedience.

21 During the time Mordecai was sitting at the king’s gate, Bigthana and Teresh, two of the king’s officers who guarded the doorway, became angry and conspired to assassinate King Xerxes. 22 But Mordecai found out about the plot and told Queen Esther, who in turn reported it to the king, giving credit to Mordecai. 23 And when the report was investigated and found to be true, the two officials were impaled on poles. All this was recorded in the book of the annals in the presence of the king.

Mordecai did a good service to the King by discovering and reporting a plot to kill the King.
This good service is recorded in the King's records....and could always be recalled.
By this reporting, Mordecai becomes known to the some of the King's officials.


Thursday, Dec 26, 2013.
Michael Yeap.

http://www.biblegateway.com/passage/?search=Esther%202&version=NIV

Esther chapter 1 - Queen Vashti deposed

Esther Chapter 1
Queen Vashti deposed

At that time King Xerxes reigned from his royal throne in the citadel of Susa, and in the third year of his reign he gave a banquet for all his nobles and officials. The military leaders of Persia and Media, the princes, and the nobles of the provinces were present.
For a full 180 days he displayed the vast wealth of his kingdom and the splendor and glory of his majesty.
When these days were over, the king gave a banquet, lasting seven days, in the enclosed garden of the king’s palace, for all the people from the least to the greatest who were in the citadel of Susa.

2 phase celebration concept was seen. First phase, the celebration was for high level people, for the management level. Phase one celebration lasting 180 days was for nobles and officials, military leaders, princes and nobles/aristocrats throughout the empire. The empire was divided into 127 provinces. Hence, celebration extending over period of 180 days (half year) seem reasonable as there are 127 provinces. If the king celebrates with the high level people of one province for each day, it takes a minimum of 127 days.

Phase 2 celebration was for the ordinary people. Phase 2 celebration was for 7 days, whereby the attendees had free flow of drinks. Men and women had their celebration at separate place. The men were hosted by the King in the garden, while the women were hosted by the Queen inside the palace.

It is a good management concept that we need to be people-oriented. We need to be nice to the common people, appreciate the ordinary staff.  Management level staff or higher level staff gatherring to be done separately make sense.  Higher level people and ordinary people often have differing life style, differing expectations, different food preferences, difference areas of interest.

In the military, most social functions are held separately. Two major distinction will be Officers and Other Ranks  (Non-Officers).
Within the Officers range, there is also segmentation such as Senior Officers (Liutenant Colonel and above) and Officers (below Liutenant Colonel). Other segmentations are such as Management-level Officers (Colonel and above).

10 On the seventh day, when King Xerxes was in high spirits from wine, he commanded the seven eunuchs who served him—Mehuman, Biztha, Harbona, Bigtha, Abagtha, Zethar and Karkas— 11 to bring before him Queen Vashti, wearing her royal crown, in order to display her beauty to the people and nobles, for she was lovely to look at. 12 But when the attendants delivered the king’s command, Queen Vashti refused to come. Then the king became furious and burned with anger.
13 Since it was customary for the king to consult experts in matters of law and justice, he spoke with the wise men who understood the times 14 and were closest to the king—Karshena, Shethar, Admatha, Tarshish, Meres, Marsena and Memukan, the seven nobles of Persia and Media who had special access to the king and were highest in the kingdom.
15 “According to law, what must be done to Queen Vashti?” he asked. “She has not obeyed the command of King Xerxes that the eunuchs have taken to her.”
16 Then Memukan replied in the presence of the king and the nobles, “Queen Vashti has done wrong, not only against the king but also against all the nobles and the peoples of all the provinces of King Xerxes. 17 For the queen’s conduct will become known to all the women, and so they will despise their husbands and say, ‘King Xerxes commanded Queen Vashti to be brought before him, but she would not come.’ 18 This very day the Persian and Median women of the nobility who have heard about the queen’s conduct will respond to all the king’s nobles in the same way. There will be no end of disrespect and discord.
19 “Therefore, if it pleases the king, let him issue a royal decree and let it be written in the laws of Persia and Media, which cannot be repealed, that Vashti is never again to enter the presence of King Xerxes. Also let the king give her royal position to someone else who is better than she. 20 Then when the king’s edict is proclaimed throughout all his vast realm, all the women will respect their husbands, from the least to the greatest.”
21 The king and his nobles were pleased with this advice, so the king did as Memukan proposed.

This passage showed that the Queen had defied the King by not following the King's instruction.  When the Queen refused to go to the King upon the King's instruction, this cause the King to "lose face" among all the high-level people (princes, generals, nobles/aristocrats). If the King tolerates this, in future, the King's instructions may be defied by his generals, his princes/governors, his officials.

The King had made use of advisors.  This is commendable. No top leader is so smart that he needs not listen to advice.  Chao Chao (in the Three Kingdoms epic) also often listen to advice from his Advisors, Officials and Generals.

Discipline and Chastising is important.  As Sun Tzu teaches about military strategies, if the army does not obey, the army must be punished sternly. Punishment would be an example to others, to ensure others comply to orders.
Hence, the advice was sound. The Queen needs to be punished and demoted, so that others will be careful so as NOT to disobey.

Furthermore, the Queen hosted the women folk in the celebration party. The Queen was like the head of all the women. If the Queen could defy the King, all the women could also defy their husbands. It was right that the Queen be chastised, and this would serve as stern example for all the women. Also for the men, they need to uphold their leadership of their home/family.  Men need to take charge!
Her bad example would be likely to have a bad influence upon all the families of the kingdom.

The wives would give to their husbands honour, even the wives of the great, notwithstanding their own greatness, and the wives of the small, notwithstanding the husband’s meanness (Est. 1:20); and thus every man would bear rule in his own house, as he ought to do, and, the wives being subject, the children and servants would be so too.
These days, I do see many instances of "Queen Control."  This means the Wife is playing the role of the Head of the Family.  Queen Control is often the case when the Wife is a strong-willed, determined and decisive person whereas the Husband is the soft and indecisive guy.  The Bible says that the Husband should be the Head of the Family. The Bible also says that the Wife should be submissive to the Husband.  In this modern era, this is not always practised.

The question proposed to this cabinet-council (Est. 1:15): What shall we do to the queen Vashti according to the law? Observe, (1.) Though it was the queen that was guilty, the law must have its course. (2.) Though the king was very angry, yet he would do nothing but what he was advised was according to law.

Conclusion:
1)  In order to preserve the harmony and structure of Family according to biblical principles, the Wife should obey and honour the Husband. Especially, in the public, the Wife must "give face" to the Husband. Wife should not publicly defy the Husband, causing the Husband to "lose face."
2)  Chastisement is important to instil discipline and make it an example to all other people. Yet, the chastisement should be suitable based on the rules, procedures and norms.


Thursday, Dec 26, 2013.
Michael Yeap.

http://www.biblegateway.com/passage/?search=esther%201&version=NIV