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Thursday, 23 January 2014

Proverbs chapter 12 (part 2) The way of a fool is right in his own eyes #Wise sayings of Solomon

Proverbs chapter 12.

Summary:  Righteous treat their animals kinder than the wicked treat their friends. Work hard and work smart and be rewarded with abundance of money. The wicked covets the ill-gotten wealth of another wicked person. The righteous will earn income with stability. Careless talk gets the wicked into trouble. Do not over-react when angry. Honest witness vs false witness. Tongue can be hurtful like sword, or healing.

10 10 The righteous care for the needs of their animals,
    but the kindest acts of the wicked are cruel.  (NIV)


10 10 A righteous man regards the life of his animal,
But the tender mercies of the wicked are cruel.  (NKJV)


Kindest action of the wicked are cruel in comparison to the least kind action of the righteous.  The righteous treat their animals more kindly than the wicked treat their friends. This is a matter of heart. For the wicked tends to have a wicked heart, having ill intentions. Example: desire to backstab and slander someone in order to "kill" off that someone. Example: to lie and discredit someone in order to climb the corporate ladder and get promoted. Example: desire to deceive and cheat in order to gain extra profit and much money.

A righteous man is not only merciful for his neighbours (friends and relatives), but also to his pet animals and farm animals. This tells the degree of kindness in the heart of a righteous person.

11 11 He who tills his land will have plenty of bread,
    but he who follows worthless pursuits has no sense.  (RSV)

11 11 Those who work their land will have abundant food,
    but those who chase fantasies have no sense.  (NIV)

11 11 He who tills his land will be satisfied with bread,
But he who follows frivolity is devoid of understanding.[b]
  (NKJV)

The person who is diligent in his work and business will be rewarded with much money. Work hard and work smart are important principle of wise living. We must be reminded not to do worthless work/activities which is unwise. Examples: trying to get rich by unsuitable manners, such as lottery, gambling, share speculation. Other examples are wasting of time and energy in sinful interests, for instance, extra-marital affairs, drinking in pubs for hours, karaoke for hours at night.

Those who are devoid of understanding waste time by fooling around with friends, drinking, gambling, playing women, partying, clubbing, etc. Excessive "wine, women and song" is not beneficial. It is noted that we should strike a balance: "All work and no play makes Jack a dull boy."

Despite the fact that we need to work diligently, we also need spare some time for relaxing activities (which are healthy and not sinful). Balance is crucial.

12 12 The strong tower of the wicked comes to ruin,
    but the root of the righteous stands firm.[a]
13 13 An evil man is ensnared by the transgression of his lips,

    but the righteous escapes from trouble.  (RSV)
12 The wicked desire the stronghold of evildoers,
    but the root of the righteous endures.
13 Evildoers are trapped by their sinful talk,
    and so the innocent escape trouble.  (NIV)

12 12 The wicked covet the catch of evil men,
But the root of the righteous yields fruit.
13 13 The wicked is ensnared by the transgression of his lips,

But the righteous will come through trouble.  (NKJV)

The wicked person desires the wealth and power of another wicked person. We must not be like that. We must not covet the wealth and riches gained through improper means (e.g. deceitful schemes, lies, cheating, unfair business practice). We must not covet the power and honour of the wicked person (e.g. triad chief, gangster, loan shark, brothel boss).

By being righteous in our work, we will be rewarded monetarily. We can be earning stable income doing righteous work.

The bad guys get into trouble with their careless talk, e.g. slanders and gossips. Avoid slandering and gossiping. Avoid chatter that stir up conflicts, arguments and quarrels. Avoid talk that sow discord and disunity.  The righteous through their good speech will be at peace with other people. Even when he is in trouble with his angry customer, for instance, the righteous will be smart with his lips to mitigate the situation and calm the customer.

14 14 From the fruit of his words a man is satisfied with good,
    and the work of a man’s hand comes back to him.  (RSV)

14 14 From the fruit of their lips people are filled with good things,
    and the work of their hands brings them reward.  (NIV)


Our speech and work produce us rewards - money and riches. Good speech will bring us many good things: friendship, respect, honour, favour. Encourage others is a fine example of good speech. Praising others for work well done is another example of good speech.

15 15 The way of a fool is right in his own eyes,
    but a wise man listens to advice.  (RSV)


15 15 The way of fools seems right to them,
    but the wise listen to advice.  (NIV)


15 15 The way of a fool is right in his own eyes,
But he who heeds counsel is wise.  (NKJV)


The foolish person looks at things from his own viewpoint only. The foolish person thinks that he is always right. But the wise person is one who listens to counsel and advice of other people. The wise person looks at things from multiple points of view.

16 16 The vexation of a fool is known at once,
    but the prudent man ignores an insult.  (RSV)


16 16 Fools show their annoyance at once,
    but the prudent overlook an insult.  (NIV)


16 16 A fool’s wrath is known at once,
But a prudent man covers shame.  (NKJV)


When a foolish person becomes angry, he allows his anger to take control of himself. The foolish person overreacts when angry. Do some foolish action which he would later regret.

The wise person may also angry, but is more prudent and able to control his anger. He will try to keep calm when angry, avoiding hasty reactions. He will decide on the action after he has calmed down from anger. Because actions/decisions during anger may later be regretted.

17 17 He who speaks the truth gives honest evidence,
    but a false witness utters deceit.  (RSV)


17 17 An honest witness tells the truth,
    but a false witness tells lies.  (NIV)


We should speak truth. We should not be false witness, lying with deceitful intent. Related to false witness, is slandering and backstabbing. All these are output from lips of the wicked. We must be careful so NOT to become a false witness.

18 18 There is one whose rash words are like sword thrusts,
    but the tongue of the wise brings healing.  (RSV)


18 18 The words of the reckless pierce like swords,
    but the tongue of the wise brings healing.  (NIV)


Tongue is very powerful. A slandering tongue can hurt other people like a sword. A tongue sowing discord and disunity can severe the bonds of friendship like a sword. On the contrary, a tongue of encouragement/exhortation can heal a depressed person and make him more optimistic. A tongue of apology can heal many hurts and painful memories.

As righteous believers, we must be careful with our speech. Let our speech be of the beneficial type, one that builds and not destroys, one that encourages and not despises.


Thursday, Jan 23, 2014.
Michael Yeap.

NIV:  http://www.biblegateway.com/passage/?search=Proverbs%2012&version=NIV

RSV:  http://www.biblegateway.com/passage/?search=Proverbs%2012&version=RSV

NKJV:  http://www.biblegateway.com/passage/?search=Proverbs%2012&version=NKJV

Commentaries:
10)  http://www.biblegateway.com/resources/matthew-henry/Prov.12.10
11)  http://www.biblegateway.com/resources/matthew-henry/Prov.12.11
12)  http://www.biblegateway.com/resources/matthew-henry/Prov.12.12
13)  http://www.biblegateway.com/resources/matthew-henry/Prov.12.13
14)  http://www.biblegateway.com/resources/matthew-henry/Prov.12.14
15)  http://www.biblegateway.com/resources/matthew-henry/Prov.12.15
16)  http://www.biblegateway.com/resources/matthew-henry/Prov.12.16
17)  http://www.biblegateway.com/resources/matthew-henry/Prov.12.17
18)  http://www.biblegateway.com/resources/matthew-henry/Prov.12.18
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Monday, 20 January 2014

Proverbs chapter 11 (part 3) - Victory is won through many advisers. Wise Sayings of Solomon.

Proverbs chapter 11.


12 Whoever derides their neighbor has no sense,
    but the one who has understanding holds their tongue.
13 A gossip betrays a confidence,
    but a trustworthy person keeps a secret. (NIV)

12 He who is devoid of wisdom despises his neighbor,
But a man of understanding holds his peace.
13 A talebearer reveals secrets,
But he who is of a faithful spirit conceals a matter.  (NKJV)

The unwise, foolish person may despise or belittle his neighbour, friends or relatives. But the wise person will keep quiet and not criticize, not condemn his friends and relatives.

In people interrelationship, it is important not to criticize other people. Criticism will not invite resentment and enmity from other people. The person criticized will eventually want vengeance, and will criticize us in return. This may lead to more argument and quarrel.  Reminds me of what I read in Dale Carnegie's book on How To Win Friends and Influence People.

Avoid gossips, rumours and tale-telling. All these will cause more trouble. Let the secrets that we have the privilege to know remains a secret. Do not expose our people's secrets, otherwise we will lose our trustworthiness.

14 14 Where there is no guidance, a people falls;
    but in an abundance of counselors there is safety.  (RSV)

14 14 For lack of guidance a nation falls,
    but victory is won through many advisers.  (NIV)


14 14 Where there is no counsel, the people fall;
But in the multitude of counselors there is safety.  (NKJV)


Clever minds, wise decisions, sound advice are important for important decisions. No Leader is so good and perfect that he doesn't need the advice and counsel of his assistants, subordinates, team members. All top leaders listen to their advisers. Kings have several/numerous advisers. We must listen to professional advice, ideas and suggestions. We must also be open to diverse and differing points of view. We must be open-minded to diverse opinions.

15 15 Whoever puts up security for a stranger will surely suffer,
    but whoever refuses to shake hands in pledge is safe.  (NIV)

15 15 He who is surety for a stranger will suffer,
But one who hates being surety is secure.  (NKJV)

We must not be surety or financial guarantee for a stranger or an acquaintance. If he does not pay up his loan or loan instalment, we will be forced by the bank/lender to pay in lieu. Whoever listens to this instruction of not becoming surety or loan guarantee will be financially secured from this risk.

16 16 A gracious woman gets honor,
    and violent men get riches.  (RSV)


16 16 A kindhearted woman gains honor,
    but ruthless men gain only wealth.  (NIV)

16 16 A gracious woman retains honor,
But ruthless men retain riches.  (NKJV)

If we are kind-hearted and gracious, we will be honoured by God and men. If we are ruthless and bad in our business practices, all we get is only the money and riches, we will not be honoured by God, not favoured by men.

17 17 A man who is kind benefits himself,
    but a cruel man hurts himself.  (RSV)

17 17 Those who are kind benefit themselves,
    but the cruel bring ruin on themselves.  (NIV)


Kindness is returned with kindness. If we are kind and good to others, our good deeds will please other people. Other people will also be kind to us. Do others a favour, the favour will later be returned to us.

Similarly, cruelty and wicked deeds will also return to the cruel man. If the cruel man is cruel and acts wickedly toward other people, somehow he will suffer some bad fate.

18 18 A wicked man earns deceptive wages,
    but one who sows righteousness gets a sure reward.  (RSV)

18 18 A wicked person earns deceptive wages,
    but the one who sows righteousness reaps a sure reward.  (NIV)


A bad, wicked person who deceives and cheats others will not received much; he gets only the monetary wages. But the righteous person who conducts his business in integrity and fairness will make a definite profit and gain his reward (money, honour, respect, treasure in heaven).

19 19 He who is steadfast in righteousness will live,
    but he who pursues evil will die.
20 20 Men of perverse mind are an abomination to the Lord,
    but those of blameless ways are his delight.  (RSV)



19 Truly the righteous attain life,
    but whoever pursues evil finds death.
20 The Lord detests those whose hearts are perverse,
    but he delights in those whose ways are blameless.  (NIV)

The righteous person will attain life....a fuller and meaningful life in this world, and eternal life in heaver. The Lord loves the righteous person who lives a godly and blameless life. We must avoid sinful habits, and control our carnal/world desires.

Those who live sinful life will eventually lead to spiritual death. Perverse and bad-hearted people are hated by God.


Monday, Jan 20, 2014.
Michael Yeap.

NIV:  http://www.biblegateway.com/passage/?search=proverbs+11&version=NIV

RSV:  http://www.biblegateway.com/passage/?search=proverbs+11&version=RSV

NKJV:  http://www.biblegateway.com/passage/?search=proverbs+11&version=NKJV

Commentaries:
11)  http://www.biblegateway.com/resources/matthew-henry/Prov.11.12-Prov.11.13
12)  http://www.biblegateway.com/resources/matthew-henry/Prov.11.14
13)  http://www.biblegateway.com/resources/matthew-henry/Prov.11.15
14)  http://www.biblegateway.com/resources/matthew-henry/Prov.11.16
15)  http://www.biblegateway.com/resources/matthew-henry/Prov.11.17
16)  http://www.biblegateway.com/resources/matthew-henry/Prov.11.18
17)  http://www.biblegateway.com/resources/matthew-henry/Prov.11.19
18)  http://www.biblegateway.com/resources/matthew-henry/Prov.11.20
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